it’s being a long time since i had my last post..sory but dont worry, i’ll update the content asap..currently im quit busy with works that need to be settled urgently plus outstation here n there..sighh..~
read comments (0)The Malaysian Solution
Posted by helmi in Articles
read this and be thankful from what we have in Malaysia. This articles written by a jew
by Dr. Israel Shamir
The Writings of Israel Shamir
Take a country populated by diverse communities, the indigenous and immigrant, of roughly equal size. These communities profess different religions and ply different trades. The immigrants are better at business; the natives prefer to till their soil. It could be a description of Palestine with its native Palestinians and the immigrant Jewish communities. But here the comparison ends. In Malaysia, the communities live in peace without UN peacekeepers, they pursue their cultural and religious interests without submitting to bleaching multiculturalism, their country prospers while rejecting the IMF recipes, and it is a native son of soil who stands at the helm of good ship Malaysia.
Pesta Air Port Dickson
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Tepat jam 3 petang aku bergegas pulang dari office dan singgah ke rumah sewa sekejap untuk mengemas pakaian untuk pulang ke Port Dickson.alah..rutin ujung minggu. Kemantapan akal aku diuji dengan kesesakan trafik maha agung membataskan daya tenaga badan dan keghairahan berfikir aku pada petang itu. Namun berbekalkan kereta dengan injin turbo dan di jana dengan tetapan boost sebanyak 1.0 bar maka aku berjaya mengharungi liku-liku kesesakan trafik dengan sambil lewa dan sampai di rumah pukul 7 malam..(kira tak sambil lewa sangat la..haha)
Saving Money The Smart Way
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Can’t seem to put away enough dosh for a rainy day? Learn how to save the smart way:
The Divergence of Interns and Employees
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I have something to share..the issue suddenly came out from my mind and perhaps the articles can benefit the readers.
Interns and employees…
Heartbroken
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Being in love is definitely a beautiful things. But when it comes to the end of the relationship, many of us failed to recover and the worst thing is,they started to do the bad things to themselves as for the reason of being so much pain.
The Freedom Of Speech defiance
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Is This What We Are Desired? FREEDOM OF SPEECH?
The Danish need to get their heads out of their butts for a moment or two to really think about the impact of their ‘Freedom of Speech’ philosophy as an excuse to ridicule other religion and religious figures whom they feel are not worthy of such high stature and importance. I am talking about the cartoon drawing of our beloved Prophet Muhammad pbuh that Muslims all over the world found to be malicious and offensive.
We have the right to be angry, we should be angered. Any Muslim who found that particular comic to be humorous should quickly repent and pray for forgiveness from the Almighty. It was such an insult, an insolent attitude and treatment towards Muslims. And their pathetic excuse was .. Freedom of Speech! Freedom of speech, my foot!!
And let me tell you why I feel that I could not accept this as being “freedom of speech”, why the logic is that it can never be categorised as the right to extend their “freedom of speech”.
Has any one of you ever heard of The Holocaust? Many scolars would define this as the genocide of the Jews. (Genocide meaning deliberate and systematic destruction of an ethnic, racial, religious or national group) But I will not get into that because this post is not about the Holocaust, or the sufferings of the Jews under the Nazi regime, but of the unholy treatment of the likes of the ‘anti-Muslims’ that exists around the world. Although, I refered to the Holocaust as an example.
If anyone has watched Freedom Writers, (which you should because it is a very interesting story which stars Hillary Swank), you may have witnessed a scene in which one of Swank’s caharacter’s students drew a comic portraying another student with a relatively (exaggerated is a more appropriate term) large nose. And Swank, scolded the class for that drawing deeming it an insult and NOT to be considered a practical joke because of the similar effect it had (or could have) as the Holocaust.
During the Holocaust, hundreds of cartoons were drawn portraying Jews with huge noses –> an insult and ridicule to all Jews, as it were intended to be. Thus, shouldn’t this be said the same for the cartoon drawing of Prophet Muhammad pbuh? What’s the difference? If you cannot draw large noses on Jews, how come when it comes to Islam, you can make fun of them? If drawing Jews with Huge noses is deemed inappropriate, shouldn’t that be said the same for the cartoon published in the Danish papers?
The paper defended themselves by saying it was their right to extend their “freedom of speech”. Then why is it wrong, then to ridicule the Jews in comics? What’s the difference?
Apart from Jews, there are other similar examples. You can make fun of Muslims on stage, as many stand-up comics have demonstrated. Again, “freedom of speech”. However, if you ever dare say the ‘N’ word as a joke, it’s a discrimination against races. It’s an insult! So, what’s the difference?
Why is it you cannot make fun of Jews or blacks, but you can make fun of Muslims? Is this what you call “freedom of speech”? Why the difference? What’s the difference? No, I am not saying that it should be okay to make fun of Jews or blacks, or Hispanics or Christians or any religion and race for that matter. What I’m trying to make a point is that, you shouldn’t make fun of Muslims for the very same reasons you cannot make fun of Jews and using the ‘N’ word to a black person.
This is not a Holocaust, I know that. But should we have to actually wait for another Holocaust to occur, and only then will anyone take action? Or will no one actually care, but in fact, applaud the killings and the destruction of Muslims around the world? If this is the case, and I know that there are many people out there who want this so, what right does anyone have to determine which race or religion can live and which race or religion cannot? Earth is big enough for everyone. Yes, the poulation is growing by the millions everyday, but so is the death toll. People are also dying everyday, all around the world. This is the circle of life as we know it.
I am not writing this in anger, although a part of me is pretty much seething with fury. However, I know that no good will come of me following my emotions. Allah has given me a brain and the ability to think, to differentiate the good and the bad. The reason I’m posting this is in hopes of anyone who happens to read this to understand the suffering that this cartoon has caused the Muslims. We love our Prophet Muhammad pbuh. We cannot stand the fact that our loved ones are insulted in such a way, taunted in manners which cannot be tolerated. If you cannot even doodle your class teacher as being fat or ugly… Just think for a while, of the consequences of your actions. Think about other people’s feelings. You may not like us, you may hate us for all your might, but that does not give you a right to insult us or anyone for that matter.
Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
Sufiah Yusof “The Confession”
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Sufiah decided to CONFESS ALL after we revealed how the former child prodigy was working as a £130-an-hour prostitute while studying for a masters in economics.
It is the latest heartbreaking twist to a life that seemed so full of promise—but went tragically wrong when she cracked under the pressure of her bullying father’s cruel academic regime and fled university at 15.
Eight years on, he is now in jail for sexually assaulting two girl pupils and Sufiah has somehow convinced herself that her seedy new career is the answer to all her problems.
“People think escorting is sleazy and terrible but I don’t see it like that,” she says. “I’ve always had a high sex drive—and now I’m getting all the sex I want—and guys are much better in bed with an escort than a girlfriend.
“I have men who are thrilled about my passion for mathematics. In fact one made me recite equations while he pleasured me, then I gave him oral sex while he chatted about algebra. It drove him wild.”
And brainbox Sufiah has worked out that subtracting your respectability to become a prostitute can equal big money.
Peeling
“I have a nice life and I am in control,” she says. “I hate this stereotype society has of escorts being exploited. It is so far from the truth.
“My clients treat me like a princess. One guy I see in London took me shopping on Bond Street. He bought me a beautiful black Gucci dress for £700 and then took me to Selfridges and told me to pick any handbag I liked.”
She chose a £600 Gucci clutch. “I’m a Primark and Topshop girl normally! I felt like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.
“Later that night we went for dinner. I wore my Gucci dress and sexy lingerie and took great pleasure in peeling it off for him later on back at his hotel.”
Sufiah was working as an administrative assistant earning £ 16,000 a year in Manchester when an escort agency boss approached her in a bar four months ago. She’d run up debts of £3,500 in rent arrears and credit cards.
And she was still haunted by her hellish childhood—subjected to her father Farooq’s Accelerated Learning Technique where she studied maths day in day out in rooms kept freezing cold to improve her concentration.
So the big rewards the agency boss promised seemed more than tempting. “I have studied so intensely for so many years I wanted to have fun,” she says.
She can’t see the sordid side of prostitution—and instead likens herself to Belle De Jour—the saucy hooker played by Billie Piper in the TV drama.
“I’d read Belle De Jour’s Diary of a London Call Girl and was fascinated,” she said. “When this immaculate lady in a designer suit asked if I had ever considered escorting, I found it appealing.
“I went home, researched agencies on the internet and found one I thought looked professional. I sent them photographs and they put me on their site.” A couple of days later Sufiah was offered her first client. She recalls: “I felt quite nervous but excited too. I slipped on some black lace underwear and stockings and suspenders and a dress, and just though, ‘Wow, this is thrilling.’
“He was waiting for me at the bar of the Hilton. I expected him to be older but when I saw him he was lovely.
“He was only in his late 20s, tall and handsome. I thought, ‘I can’t believe I’m getting paid to have sex with this man.’
“I’d have been thrilled if he chatted me up in a bar. We had a drink then went upstairs to his room and had fantastic sex. I left that night feeling totally elated having had an amazing time with £250 in my purse.” Since then, she has built up a base of regular rich clients and sees between five and ten men each week. Her sugar daddies have treated her to fabulous clothes, designer bags, trips on yachts and even helicopter rides.
Sufiah, whose interview can be seen on video at notw.co.uk, brags that she can earn more than £1,000 in a night by having diner with a client and staying over. “It’s like they want to rescue me. One man asked me how much I earned a year. I said £60,000. He told me, ‘I’ll pay that amount straight into your bank and buy you a flat and you can be my mistress.’
“But I don’t want that because I’m happy doing what I do. Now I wonder if I could go back to a normal relationship, where you watch EastEnders and have boring sex. I’ve got used to being treated like a princess.”
It is as if she has run away from reality—just as she ran away from university and her father’s dominance at 15.
Sufiah becomes solemn and subdued when she talks of her upbringing. “As I grew older I began to clash with my father,” she says. “He was violent on occasions. Because he pushed me so far academically, I became more confident for a girl of my age. I grew up too quickly.
“From 11, I was studying maths all the time. I didn’t have any friends. I wasn’t in the Brownies. My father said they didn’t teach Muslim values. I hardly ever played with other children.”
She passed her maths A level aged 12 and started at St Hilda’s College, Oxford. “It was an amazing place but I was too young. By the time I was 15 I wanted to be in control of my life. I fought back.”
Sufiah sparked a two week nationwide police hunt when she ran away instead of going home at the end of term, saying she’d “had enough of 15 years of physical and emotional abuse”. Her father claimed she had been kidnapped and brainwashed by members of a socialist organisation.
But now, speaking about it for the first time, Sufiah says: “I couldn’t bear the thought of going home so I ran away. I’d saved up £200 and found a hostel in London for £14 per night. After a week I moved to a hostel in Bournemouth. I knew I could survive on my own.”
When she was found in an internet cafe, Sufiah refused to go home and was placed in foster care by Bournemouth social services. She says: “I stayed with two families who were very good to me. My mum and dad would call me and ask me to go home—but I didn’t want to.”
Rich
Her 50-year-old father is now in jail for 18 months after being convicted of sexually assaulting two 15-year-old girls he taught at his home in Coventry.
When Sufiah reached 18 she returned to Oxford to continue her studies—and fell in love with fellow student Jonathan Marshall. They married a year later but it barely lasted a year.
“At the time I thought we would be together forever, but we married too young and grew apart,” she says.
After the split she moved back to London where she taught maths in the evenings to make ends meet. Then six months ago she moved to Manchester—and stumbled across her new career. “I’m still only young and I can’t decide what I want to do,” she says. “My escort work provides me with a fabulous life.
“I still enjoy learning and I find it puts me in the right frame of mind for an intelligent conversation with my clients.” But she admits not all her sexual encounters work out. “At the end of the day you don’t have to sleep with a client if you don’t want to. I’ve done that twice now. Both men were young and very nervous. I just left.
“The dullest client I’ve ever had was a rich man who talked about cars all night. It was really, really boring.”
Sufiah is well aware she could easily find a job in the City where she could match her £60,000 a year sex earnings.
But she said: “I don’t want to take anything away from people who do jobs like that but it’s not for me. I have a nice life. I don’t want for anything.”
Her mother Halimahton is now divorcing jailed Farooq and is desperate for her daughter to get in touch with her. “I was shaking when I found out what had become of her,” she says.
But talking about her bitter split with her parents, Sufiah says: “I would describe our relationship as estranged.
“I have contact with them occasionally but I couldn’t speculate on what they will make of my new life.
“I don’t have any regrets. I’ve never felt more confident about my body and I’ve had some of the best sex of my life.”
By Sara Nuwar & Rachel Spencer
Sufiyyah “The Brilliant” Yusuf downfall in UK
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By Keith Gladdis
SHE was a child maths genius who won a place at Oxford University aged just 13—but now the only sums Sufiah Yusof is interested in are the ones she earns as a HOOKER.
For sad Sufiah the daily equation she has to solve is simply sex equals £130 as she sells her body to punters over the internet.
The gifted girl with the winning smile had the world at her feet ten years ago and should be a rich woman by now—but last week she was busy subtracting her underwear for our undercover reporter in her dingy back street flat.
“Would you like to start your half hour now?” said Sufiah, 23, as she danced on the bed, displaying her body for examination.
Then she listed all the sleazy plus points she would throw in for our man if he took up her offer.
Calling herself Shilpa Lee, the former child prodigy still juggles with figures on a hookers’ website, describing herself as a “very pretty size 8, 32D bust and 5′5″ tall—available for booking every day from 11am to 8pm.”
She says she is a “sexy, smart student” who prefers “older gentlemen”— but a former pal who has witnessed her downfall told us: “It is all desperately heartbreaking.
“With her amazing brain she should be able to make money any way she wants. But instead her life has spiralled completely out of control.”
Life has never quite added up for Sufiah. Her descent into prostitution in Salford, Manchester, is the latest in a long line of tragedies to have engulfed her since the sunny day when she posed with her university mortar board for the world’s press outside prestigious St Hilda’s College.
Our shock revelations today come in the week her domineering dad Farooq was jailed for sexually assaulting two 15-year-old girls as he home-tutored them in maths.
And he was always at the root of all her troubles— even as she passed the further maths A-Level she needed for entry to Oxford at the age of 12. In those days Sufia was a strict Muslim child who prayed five times a day and was subjected to her father’s famous Accelerated Learning Technique.
Her days involved stretching and breathing exercises in freezing rooms to keep her brain attentive.
Sufiah would then study hard and be forced to play tennis with just as much intensity as fanatical Farooq drove her on. The routine was so effective Sufiah was seeded number eight in the country for under 21s.
But three years into Oxford, the 15-year-old sparked a massive police hunt after running away.
Abuse
At the time her father bizarrely claimed Sufiah had been kidnapped and brainwashed by an organisation seeking the key to her intelligence.
But Sufiah sent an email to her family describing her life under her father as a “living hell”. 
One message to her sister read: “I’ve finally had enough of 15 years of physical and emotional abuse. You know what I am talking about.”
Sufiah was missing for two weeks before being found in an internet café in Bournemouth where she had been working as a hotel waitress.
She refused to go back to her parents and instead was taken into the care of social services.
It was then revealed that Farooq had been jailed for three years in 1992 for his part in a £1.5m mortgage swindle. Before that—at the age of 19—he had been sent to borstal for his role in a conspiracy involving £100,000.
Free from the spell of her father, Sufiah returned to Oxford to complete the final year of her Masters in Maths.
But she was now more concerned with enjoying herself—and failed to finish the course after meeting trainee lawyer Jonathan Marshall.
They were married in 2004 when Sufiah was just 19 and Jonathan 24. But the strains with her family were still there.
Despite being invited, Sufiah’s parents and four brothers and sisters failed to turn up to the wedding.
Her dreams of a happy life with Jonathan were shattered when the couple divorced just a year later.
Now, in her sad little flat, she uses her body to pay the rent. Sufiah met our man, posing as a punter, at the entrance to her building wearing a tiny skirt, leather boots and a tight t-shirt. She was carrying three mobile phones.
She laughed and joked as she led him to her small apartment where a bed was already set out in the lounge.
She told him it was £130 an hour and offered him a glass of water before putting some music on to a cheap portable stereo and nervously stripping down to her red lace bra and knickers.
Sufiah then peeled off her underwear and danced on the bed. She told him she did full sex with a condom and oral sex without protection.
After our man had made his excuses, Sufiah kept him talking by telling him how she was studying for a Masters degree in Economics on a part-time two year course in London.
The former prodigy added: “I’ve got exams coming up and I’m thinking ‘Oh my God!’”
Once described by her parents as “naïve and unstreetwise”, she works alone from her flat without any obvious physical security or protection.
She even admitted to our reporter: “It’s always a surprise who you are going to meet.”
Cheerful Sufiah gave no indication of any sadness at the jailing of her father the previous day. On Wednesday Farooq, 50, was sentenced to 18 months at Coventry Crown Court for touching two 15-year-old girls when he was home tutoring them at maths.
The court heard how in May last year Farooq arrived at one of the victim’s home for a maths lesson.
He started whispering in her ear and kissing her hair and cheek. He also touched her breast and told her she was a genius and pretty before putting her hand on his upper thigh.
Destroyed
Farooq’s defence lawyer Tim Hannam said: “He’s been back in prison for over five months and knows there’ll be no more teaching and any hope he had of gaining an income from the teaching method he had developed to a high degree of success is lost to him. His reputation is destroyed.”
Now it’s clear the daughter who fled his strict regime has almost been destroyed too.
Her friend said last night: “Sufiah has suffered so many knocks in her life. I just hope she can drag herself out this life she has got herself into.
“She is a good person and deserves a much better life than this. Her gift really has been a curse.”
Kau..aku..kita istimewa
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A few days ago time tgh mengelamun sorang-sorang, tiba-tiba terlintas dalam kepala tentang peranan n tanggungjawab org lelaki n perempuan ni..tambah plak bile aku tgk org yg sapu sampah kat area opis aku..then tgk mat rempit bawak awek naik moto dengan awek kat blakang nampak bontot tak pakai spender then terpikir cemana aa agaknye life dorang..haha tah tatau la kenapa tiba-tiba terlintas isu-isu serius plak…n aku nak kongsi sket la articles yg aku bace masa tgh surfing.
tapi tu la..just untuk kita sama-sama pikir dan mula berpikir untuk siapa-siapa yg tak penah berpikir tu..bukan senang jadi lelaki dan bukan senang jadi perempuan..
Kalau lelaki:
Lelaki bujang kena tanggung dosa sendiri apabila sudah
baligh manakala dosa gadis bujang ditanggung oleh bapanya.Lelaki
berkahwin kena tanggung dosa sendiri, dosa isteri, dosa anak
perempuan yang belum berkahwin dan dosa anak lelaki yang belum
baligh.
beratkan?
Hukum menjelaskan anak lelaki kena bertanggung jawab ke atas
ibunya dan sekiranya dia tidak menjalankan tanggung jawabnya maka
dosa baginya terutama anak lelaki yang tua, manakala perempuan
tidak, perempuan hanya perlu taat kepada suaminya. Isteri berbuat
baik pahala dapat kepadanya kalau buat takbaik dosanya ditanggung
oleh suaminya.Suami kena bagi nafkah pada isteri, ini wajib tapi isteri
tidak. Walaupun begitu isteri boleh membantu. Haram bagi suami
bertanya pendapatan isteri lebih-lebih lagi menggunakan pendapatan
isteri tanpa izin ini. Banyak lagi lelaki lebih-lebih lagi yang
bergelar suami perlu tanggung.
Kalau nak dibayangkan beratnya dosa-dosa yang ditanggungnya
seperti gunung dengan semut. Itu sebabnya mengikut kajian nyawa
orang perempuan lebih panjang daripada lelaki. Lelaki mati cepat
kerana tak larat dengan beratnya dosa-dosa yang ditanggung (ikut
kajian laa..)
Tetapi orang lelaki ada keistimewaannya yang dianugerah olehAllah SWT. Ini orang lelaki
kena tahu, kalau tak tahu kena jadi perempuan. Begitulah kira-kiranya.
perempuan :
Auratnya lebih susah dijaga berbanding lelaki. Perlu meminta
izin dari suaminya apabila mahu keluar rumah tetapi tidak
sebaliknya. Saksinya kurang berbanding lelaki. Menerima pusaka
kurang dari lelaki. Perlu menghadapi kesusahan mengandung dan
melahirkan anak. Wajib taat kepada suaminya tetapi suami tak perlu
taat pada isterinya. Talak terletak di tangan suami dan bukan
isteri. Wanita kurang dalam beribadat kerana masalah haid dan nifas
yang tak ada pada lelaki.
Pernah kita tengok sebaliknya??
Benda yang mahal harganya akan dijaga dan dibelai serta
disimpan di tempat yang tersorok dan selamat. Sudah pasti intan
permata tidak akan dibiar bersepah-sepah bukan? Itulah bandingannya
dengan seorang wanita. Wanita perlu taat kepada suami tetapi lelaki
wajib taat kepada ibunya 3 kali lebih utama dari bapanya.
Bukankah ibu adalah seorang wanita?
Wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki tetapi harta itu
menjadi milik peribadinya dan tidak perlu diserahkan kepada
suaminya, manakala lelaki menerima pusaka perlu menggunakan hartanya
untuk menyara isteri dan anak-anak.
Wanita perlu bersusah payah mengandung dan melahirkan anak,
tetapi setiap saat dia didoakan oleh segala haiwan, malaikat dan
seluruh makhluk ALLAH di mukabumi ini, dan matinya jika kerana
melahirkan adalah syahid kecil. Manakala dosanya diampun ALLAH (dosa
kecil).
Di akhirat kelak, seorang lelaki akan dipertanggungjawabk an
terhadap 4 wanita ini: isterinya, ibunya, anak perempuannya dan
saudara perempuannya. Manakala seorang wanita pula, tanggungjawab
terhadapnya ditanggung oleh 4 org lelaki ini: suaminya, ayahnya,
anak lelakinya dan saudara lelakinya.
Seorang wanita boleh memasuki pintu Syurga melalui mana-mana
pintu Syurga yg disukainya cukup dengan 4 syarat sahaja: sembahyang
5 waktu, puasa di bulan Ramadhan, taat suaminya dan menjaga
kehormatannya.
Seorang lelaki perlu pergi berjihad fisabilillah tetapi
wanita jika taat akan suaminya serta menunaikan tanggungjawabnya
kepada ALLAH akan turut menerima pahala seperti pahala orang pergi
berperang fisabilillah tanpa perlu mengangkat senjata.
MasyaALLAH.. .sayangnya ALLAH pada wanita
Seorang wanita adalah pelengkap dan sememangnya istimewa di
sisi seorang lelaki, tetapi ingatlah wahai lelaki…kamu sebenarnya
adalah istimewa disisi Allah, maka dengan sebab itu DIA mengangkat
kamu menjadi pemimpin…maka dengan keistimewaan itu, JAGALAH dan
HARGAILAH wanita sebaik-baiknya. ..supaya kelak masing2 lelaki dan
wanita dapat pulang mengadap Allah dalam keadaan istimewa disisiNYA..
peh..bile baca balik..terlintas jugak,dapat ke aku nak tunaikan tanggungjawab aku sebagai lelaki?